The 6 week hump

Dear Luke,

We've just gotten over it: the 4-6 week hump. 

Like your brothers, this was a time marked by seemingly unwarranted crying and fussiness. But it was much, much worse for you. You cried so loudly and were completely inconsolable. You spent hours crying not only in the evening, but also in the afternoon...and a few mornings. I thought we might need to take you to the doctor because you screamed like you were in pain. We tried gripe water. I was convinced it was colic. I toyed with removing dairy from my diet. Sometimes the baby carrier, swaddling, a bath, or going outside calmed you down, but none of these were a sure thing. It was sad and made me and your Daddy upset. 

Luckily, I *think* we have mostly figured it out. You need to go to sleep around 7:30pm and don't want to be around your loud big brothers. You only need to nurse every 2-3 hours, even if it seems like you are hungry before that 2 hours. If you've been up for a while, you need to sleep, even if you are alert and wide awake. You are better able to calm yourself now when you are hysterical, although it's a work in progress. 

You still have crying fits- and almost always scream in the car, but I'm hopeful that will continue to get better. And  we're trying to time trips so you're more likely to be in a good mood in the car. 

I love you so much, Luke. I would have thought that much crying would make me resent you, but instead it reminded me to be more sensitive to the needs of my sweet baby boy. I was so sad that I couldn't calm you down.You give me such beautiful smiles- I'm looking forward to seeing more of those and fewer tears.

Love,

Mommy